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  • Pick Your Battles Wisely (10-17-2011)

     

    SCRIPT:

    As you enter conflicts with your teenager, be clear about what you will or won’t support and ask them what they will or won’t support themselves.

    Conflict with your teen can be used in a healthy way to discuss their own limits.  This may be the only time they think about their limits, before they are caught off guard with such situations away from you.  If they know or have thought through their answers in advance, they will more likely make better choices.

    So, be clear on your limits, and make a habit of helping your teen clarify their own limits.  If you’ve taught them right from wrong when they were young, they’ll base their own limits on your teaching, not on what their culture tells them.


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