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  • Give Your Teen Options (10-04-2011)

     

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    You can tell a child is growing up when he stops asking where he came from and starts refusing to tell you where he is going.

    Teens crave independence.  And the best way to motivate a stubborn teen to walk a more reasonable path through life is to always give them options to choose from, including options that may have negative consequences.  When what they want to do is not on your options list, they’ll at least feel more in control by choosing from a number of options you have to offer.

    Most of all, pick your battles wisely.  You may not be prepared for another developing adult under your roof, but that’s exactly what’s happening, so move from, “My way or the highway parenting,” to providing wise options to your teen.


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