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  • Understanding (5-26-2011)

     

    PODCAST SCRIPT:

    When I tell kids, “I understand where you’re coming from” it doesn’t mean that I therefore accept their bad behavior, I just understand why they are behaving as they are.

    It’s important for parents to empathize with their teenager.  Words like “I understand” or “I would feel the same way” are helpful. But your empathy doesn’t mean they are off the hook or can continue such destructive patterns.

    When teens are dealing with issues they didn’t choose; like divorce, death of a parent, abuse, or bullying, we can and should be in their corner.  But they’re still responsible for the choices they make.  Listen and understand what’s going on with your child, but don’t allow anything to excuse their misconduct.

     


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