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  • Extreme Listening (2-28-2011)

     

    PODCAST SCRIPT:

    I see two extremes in the way many parents listen, and neither one is very helpful.

    A parent might listen carefully, but then react harshly to every word that comes out of their teen’s mouth. Or, assuming they already know what their child is thinking, they ignore what’s said entirely.

    As difficult as it can be to hear out your teen, it is better to know it than to not know it. However, it doesn’t necessarily mean you have to react or respond, since sometimes teens “think out loud” and don’t mean what they say.

    If you are guilty of not really listening, use this trick.  Before responding, repeat back what you think you heard your teen say.

     


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