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  • Tested Parents (1-11-2011)

     

    PODCAST SCRIPT:

    Teenagers love to test their parents.  Will you pass the test?

    Kids want us to listen to their opinions and respect their choices, so they may throw out different wild ideas just to see what our reaction will be.  And sometimes the more harsh the reaction, the more entrenched the teen will become, to defend themselves and their opinion.

    A wise parent will see through such tests.  For instance, if your son suddenly says “I’m quitting school,” you can say, “Great! You’ll have more time to mow the lawn!” Or, if he says, “I don’t believe in God” you can say, “I guess it’s a good thing then that He still believes in you!”

    The point is this…don’t cement their wild ideas with equally wild reactions.



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