Parenting Todays Teens Radio
  • Using the Right Words (8-27-2010)

     

    PODCAST SCRIPT:

    When it comes to responsibilities, teenagers seem to have a better time handling the word “when” than “if.”

    It’s amazing how teens pick up on a parent’s hesitancy. Saying “If you do your chores today, you can go see your friends” simply tells the teen that they have a decision to make. Do I do the chores or not? The parent who instead says “When you do your chores today…” tells the teen that the chores are expected to be done, regardless, and before anything else.

    It is a subtle difference, but using the word “when” versus “if” can help a teen remain focused on the task.

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