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  • Firestarters in the Family (8-25-2010)

     

    PODCAST SCRIPT:

    In families with a struggling teenager, a lot of unhealthy 3rd person sniping can go on, pitting family members against each other.

    When teens are struggling, they can become experts at shifting attention away from themselves, by saying deceitful things about other family members behind their backs. I call them “firestarters.” They can pit one parent against another, or the other siblings against their parents. Their smoldering fires can even cause the breakup of a family.

    Parents need to understand this dynamic and agree to always stand united in regard to decisions, discipline and rules. Doing so takes the fire away from the firestarters.


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