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  • Laughing Matters (2-12-2010)

     

    PODCAST SCRIPT:

    To a frustrated parent, a teenager breaking the household rules is no laughing matter. But maybe it should be!

    When disciplining a teenager, adding some levity to the discussion reduces the tension and focuses on the teen’s misbehavior without sounding angry or upset with them personally.

    For instance, when I confront kids I usually do so with a big smile, saying, “wow! You really blew it! What happened?” It tends to make the teen respond, “Yeah, I guess I did,” and getting them to take ownership for their mistake is a healthy first step.

    The point is this, let the consequences do the teaching, not your anger.


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