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  • Argue Well With Your Teen (1-13-2010)

     

    PODCAST SCRIPT:

    In some homes, arguing with parents isn’t allowed. But if done right, arguing can be good thing.

    Conflict isn’t always bad. It can reveal things both you and your teen to deal with, but there are some do’s and don’ts of arguing.

    The do’s are: always maintain respect, focus on the problem, be specific about your complaint, and find a way to compromise, if possible.

    The don’ts are: no name-calling, no questioning motives, and no bringing up the past.

    One person talks at a time, then the listener repeats the gist of what the other said before getting a turn. If respect breaks down, then stop to allow things to cool down before starting again. Learning how to argue respectfully is an important skill every teen needs to learn.

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