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  • A Better Way to Listen to Your Teen (12-18-2009)

     

    TODAY’S SCRIPT:

    I recently spoke to a group of parents who seemed more interested in talking than listening to what I had to say.

    Teens often feel the same sense of frustration as I had in that meeting. Trying to talk to mom or dad, they can’t get a word in edgewise, or their parents too quickly jump to a conclusion, so the teen just gives up trying.

    Here’s a better way to listen…

    First, stop what you are doing and look your teenager in the eyes. Then, wait a few seconds before you talk, in case they haven’t said all they need to say. And finally, make your responses mostly questions, not answers, to keep them talking.

    If your teenager isn’t listening to you, perhaps it’s because you’ve not been listening to them.

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