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  • Adopted Teen Struggles (11-10-2009)

     

    TODAY’S SCRIPT:

    I counsel daily bewildered and broken adoptive parents who are surprised by the intensity of the struggle they are suddenly having with their adopted child.

    More than one third of the kids in our Heartlight residential program have come from adoptive families. That’s because adopted teens face a unique set of identity issues that spring from deep-seated feelings of abandonment by their birth mother. The older the child when adopted, the more intense these feelings can be.

    While I applaud adoptive parents, some adopted kids can turn on them and express hatred for them during this stage. The best thing for the parents to do is not take it personally. Prepare for this to happen and get good counsel for the child if or when it does.

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