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  • What Is Underneath Is What Counts (10-7-2009)

     

    TODAY’S SCRIPT:

    Some parents think that teenage misbehavior can be fixed by simply addressing the behavior, not the underlying causes.

    In my years of working with struggling teenagers, I’ve learned that those who get off track in life are influenced by some deep feeling or event that has triggered their change in behavior. In other words, while we all struggle against sin in our lives, and teens especially, it isn’t natural for them to quickly turn into someone their parents don’t even know. Something else is going on in their life.

    In such cases, fixing bad behavior may require more than just discipline. It means testing them for drug or alcohol use and seeking counseling to the uncover underlying issues — even possible emotional or physical abuse by others.


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