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  • Hard Lessons for Teens (8-12-2009)

     

    SCRIPT:

    When a parent called to say his son had been arrested, I encouraged him not to cancel his week-long business trip to bail out his teen.

    If your teenager has been openly dabbling with illegal activity, and gets arrested, you may not want to run to bail them out.

    A guilty teen learns invaluable lessons from spending time in a jail cell when he’s done something he knows is wrong. On the other hand, if he knows the parent will fix it every time, he’ll never learn, and end up in jail again and again.

    A few days in a lock-up is usually very safe for a teenager, and it can be the catalyst for a change of heart, giving them time to process their unwise choices and see firsthand the consequences that society exacts to wrong-doing.


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