Parenting Todays Teens Radio
  • Teens and Peers (6-12-2009)

     

    SCRIPT:

    Parents and teens have differing goals.  A parent seeks to defend and protect their teen, but a teen seeks to have friends and to be accepted by his peers.

    Parents can tend to shelter their teens in an effort to keep them from connecting with wrong influences, or to be pressured into wrong behavior. But a teen wants socialization and acceptance outside the family. 

    So a wise parent will give enough freedom to address their teen’s need to belong, along with very strong boundaries around their choices.  The combination of freedom and boundaries, with strong consequences, keeps a parent in the right kind of support role, and gives a teen a good reason to say “no” to their peers.

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