Parenting Todays Teens Radio
  • Parental Imperfection (4-01-2009)

     

    Listen NowONE COMMERCIAL SLOGAN SAYS, “NEVER LET THEM SEE YOU SWEAT.”  THE SAME CAN BE SAID FOR A PARENT DEALING WITH THE PROBLEMS OF A STRUGGLING TEEN.

    PRETENDING PROBLEMS DON’T EXIST IS SOMETIMES EASIER THAN FACING SOME OF THE NEGATIVE THINGS A TEEN IS EXPERIENCING. A PARENT’S DISCOMFORT OFTEN CAUSES THEM TO LOOK FOR A QUICK FIX OR MIRACLE CURE, WITHOUT EVER REALLY ADDRESSING THE UNDERLYING ISSUES.

    INSTANT GRATIFICATION AND SEEKING HAPPINESS OVER WHOLENESS JUST MAKES FINDING REAL HELP FOR YOUR TEEN HARDER.

    SO, INSTEAD OF SOLVING OR FIXING, LET YOUR TEEN KNOW THAT EVEN THOUGH IT MAKES YOU UNCOMFORTABLE, IT IS OK TO NOT HAVE IT ALL TOGETHER. YOU ARE NOT ANGRY OR ASHAMED OF THEM, AND YOU ARE WILLING TO WORK ON THINGS TOGETHER UNTIL THE PROBLEM IS RESOLVED.


    Parenting Todays Teens Radio by Mark Gregston, presented by Heartlight Ministries Foundation

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